I have 3 children and besides my emet i believe i am a great mum. I cant be with them when "it" is actually happening, but i only panic on the inside. I can clean "it" up, wash them and give them plenty of cuddles, i have even held thier hair back ( while looking away). The plus side is i work and my husband stays at home. My mum had a lot of mental health issues while growing up, but none of them rubbed off on me. I think she was and still is a great mum and i wouldnt change a thing about my very happy upbringing or the way i turned out