thanks for your reply, this forum has made me feel so much better, just knowing i'm not the only one is comforting!
I think i need a therapist rather than a doctor as i KNOW it is nothing physical! I am very anxious so have thought about going on anti-anxiety medication but i am not sure if this is the best thing to do...i don't think i need anti-depressants as i'm not depressed, more anxious and fed up of feeling anxious!