I'm also not totally obsessed with hygiene, I'm completely anal about hygiene around handling raw chicken and pork but totally fine around preparing raw beef and lamb and would happily eat them rare. Im also happy handling raw eggs and eat them with the yolk runny.

I properly clean my house every 2-3 days, I'm quite happy to let my daughter make a mess and then tidy once in bed. If someone is sick in my house then I won't use cups that they have use