omg that is me exactly! if someone around me has v recently,i cant eat for days til i feel its safe,which is about 4 days.i mean i will eat,but only enough to survive.same with my daughter,if she wakes up in the night,my heart literally stops beating and i start shaking get all tingly and weak and feeling naus,just certain that she has the flu and is gonna come in and puke.its dreadful.when she does have the flu,i try to avoid her at all costs,its so sad cause she is only 4