Okay, you need to try to get yourself together...slowly try to go back in the house, after you know everything is cleaned. Talk to your hubby, and yes, later on, you probably should apologize to your son. You don't want any trauma with him, and I don't think 6 years old is old enough to know when and where to go. Just explain that you got a little nervous, etc. He needs to know that he isn't being blamed, and he's def. not too young to understand all that. Don't be too hard on yourself...we all know the panic and irrational behaviors that you don't mean to do...take care.