I have a three yr old, she will be for next month, and I too am dreading the whole pre school thing. we live in the country on a farm in NZ and its been easy to do correspondence preschool, because of the distance we have to travel, but that is just an excuse. I was wanting to wait until after winter here, for the reason that it is after the worse flu bugs. we all have a flu shot etc, and I believe we have great immunities because of being on a farm. However I wont know until I sent her how her immunity will be against other kiddies. What do you think I should do?...then I suppose you may have the answer for what you should do lol!