OK - sorry to keep posting here
I just found it and not that my 2 cents mean anything because they don't, but...

I agree with you Hairy. I don't know about a fine - I would rather see the law slam down way harder on idiots that text and drive at the same time, but I agree that most adults CAN control themselves to some extent and should at least try to be a little more respectful in public - but a lot just don't and we can't change the world. All we can do is control our own lives the best we can - and do our best to stay the heck away from those that are ... unable to control themselves.

Hugz and support.