day for consequence

[emet68]

Hi momtecz, I haven't read all of your posts concerning your daughter but I was curious about the consequences that she has to face in not using her coping skills. My daughter suffers from anxiety but not from emetophobia. I have received different advice from doctors on how to deal with it. One said not to punish her because of something she couldn't control, the other said to take things away from her that are important. I find that when I take something away, she is in such a state of panic that she doesn't even care. She gets so worked up that any consequence becomes useless. Does this happen to you? How do you deal with it?
Sorry, I meant to say earlier that I go through the same thing - one afternoon my daughter and I are shopping like best friends, the next morning she can't bring herself to get on the subway to go to school (something she's been doing alone for months!).