Thanks for commenting firstly, I'm glad there are others like me out there. It makes me feel alot more sane and less of a "crazy lady"

It's not the fact that he doesn't know... He just doesn't understand. He has been told his whole life that v* is ok and even good. (Bets me!)
His mom would let him be *unwell* anywhere, and they didn't practise very good hygiene (not too standard, or my idea of a "normal" persons idea)

I am in the process of trying to teach him and because this is the first time when he's been living with me... It makes it very difficult.

The whole situation is making me especially anxious because I can't get off work, to "prepare" for a sick person.

I know it's terrible to think that way, but I'm not ready to make a compromise on this subject. And you are totally right... I just can't understand, why his parents never taught him "otherwise".

Quote Originally Posted by mdgirl1977 View Post
I agree about the gloves and stuff. Also get him a damn bucket and tell him to keep it next to him so he can v into it. What the hell - he is a grown up?? Line it with like 5 bags for easy disposal. He should be able to keep his v contained. Even my 7 year old son knows to keep a trash can near him. That part really makes me angry. Does he not know that you are emet????