Oh good, that's great to know. Everyone take note, Kelly44 is open to 'constructive criticism'.
Here's your first bit, when you're new to a board, don't pick on a long time poster. It looks pathetic.
Second, don't pretend that you can make rude comments and then act like all is well, it's not. What parallel universe do you live in?
Third, don't PM people you don't know to continue an argument and then accuse them of being obsessed with you. It looks desperate and is downright weird.
That's it for now, but knowing your type I'll have more 'constructive criticism' as you call it, really, really soon.