Oh I agree my colleague that was diagnosed really deserves the support from us and I gladly contributed to her gift and was totally upset by what happened to her as she's one of my work friends however the rest of them all new wjat happened to me including management word spreads quick where I work and when I returned people in a different departments were asking me how I was they had all heard off the gossips I work with yet mental health is clearly not worthy of much to them. I know my post might sound selfish but it's just sad to see no one really takes on board the damage it does