my ex came over after work today because he had owed me some money but when he was here he said he had been feeling sick all day. I asked what he meant but he didn't really give me a clear answer just that he felt gross and tired. He seemed really out of it so i didn't question him anymore ( he knows im afraid of v*) so i think it's quite cruel of him to not take it seriously and come over in that condition but i guess it can't be helped after all people without emetophobia never really seem to get what all the fuss is about and take our fear lightly. Anyways out of kindness i let him lay down on my bed for a bit and got him some water though deep down i was terrified and just wanted him to leave after he finally left i wanted to wash my sheets but found no change to do so. So I tried to be cool about it layed down because he never said he had the stomach flu or anything so i was just trying to tell myself not to get my head in a knot and overreact. The day went on and i felt fine forgot about it ate some frozen pizza and now it's 11:58pm at night and i feel nauseous i tried to contact my ex to ask him if he found out what it was he had but no answer he must be asleep i guess I wont hear from him until morning if im lucky (he's not too attached to his phone) I just need some comfort im really scared and have no one to talk to please help!