I know how horrible it can be...I've been there as well. But the
strange thing is, that I never got a sv* from anyone I was around that
I knew was sick. For the most part they were "mystery sv*".
I have no idea where I got them from. But us emets are so careful
when we know somene is v*, that most of the time we are ok. Even
as a child, I remember my mom taking care of me, my brother, and my
sister, and never catching it! She was never an emet, but she
used bleach and lysol and washed her hands a lot during those
times. You said you have slept next to your husband before when
he was sick? Was he v* then also? Carrie