Hello everyone! I've been away for a long time, and luckily, I'm not back because of horrible news... exactly...
I get horrible cramping with my period, and it doesn't respond to pain meds. The first 2-3 days are curl-up-in-bed-and-cry level pain. I've missed school, and it's generally awful. My mom took me to see the gynecologist recently and she told me a few things I could try to make it better (pain meds, diet changes, hot pad, exercise, etc), and when I told her I already did all that, she told me what I already kind of knew: the pill was my last option. I explained to her that my mother is extremely anti birth control, and that it was unlikely that she would allow me to begin taking it. The doctor gave me a prescription I could take to a planned parenthood or CVS near me and get them without my parents needing to know, but the nearest planned parenthood is an hour each way by metro... and when using metro, as anyone in the DC area knows, you need to plan in a LOT of extra time. I don't think I could make that trip each month, nor can I afford it. Each treatment would be 50 from CVS (a 20 minute walk) or 20+ from planned parenthood... or free with insurance.
The reason I'm posting here today is to ask if anyone has any advice for me. I've got next to no money, and traveling would be really hard with the time amount and everything involved. I'm also only 15 so I can't get a job.
My mother is against it because she believes it will cause me to be barren, even once I stop taking it in the future. My dad, who I expected to be more rational and scientific, went off on a rant about how he doesn't think BC pills actually stop the body from having children, it just disconnects the mind from the body and "if the mind isn't in sync with the body, of course you can't get pregnant!" To top it all off, he then had the nerve to say that he gets the SAME TYPE OF PAIN after he runs and that he just takes pain meds and it gets better... except he's a guy and if I knew that there was an action I was doing that caused this pain (that causes me to be paralyzed in bed, crying, for 2-3 days) I wouldn't keep doing it! Plus, pain meds don't work for me anyway.
Does anyone know how I could convince my parents to allow me to take it?
p.s. This is not a major contender for why I want to take it, but my boyfriend and I recently lost our virginities to each other and even through we always use condoms, I would love an extra fail safe.