I can’t go out

[stephiestarz]

There has been sooo many times when friends have invited me out somewhere, just to their house or bowling or somewhere.. And I end up calling them and telling themI can't make it - because of feeling literally all over the place. I wake up really early and can't get back to sleep - I'm sweating and have pains in my stomach.


Recently it's been getting better - I force myself to go out and I usually feel reallys* as soon as I get out of the car and look up at my friends house. But it is getting better, and I'm able to get out and about more It's ruining my life but I'm getting over it slowly.. Hmmmm

[fliss]

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Hiya,


I know how you feel, the last time I went out i managed to stay out for 5 minutes then called my mum to pick me up[img]smileys/smilies_09.gif[/img]. I feel sick just thinking about it and i get SO panicking whenever im without my "safety blanket" of my parents or friends. Im working on it-butlike most people say-itdoesnt get better when you get there. I constantly think up excuses and ways to leave etc. it's not very pleasant and a lot of people dont understand and think you're attention seeking!


Fliss x


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[stephiestarz]

Yeah that's exactly my problem - for example a few weeks ago I was invitedto sleepover my best friends house but I turned her down - for that exact reason

[woodsy]

Yeah i've turned down loads of offers. shame really cuz i used to love going out!

[stephiestarz]

Same! I would want to go out all the time! But now I don't and I stay inside all the time on the computer - so I've put on weight too

[Jenneh]

heya


ur exactly the same as me... and a lot of us here i'd imagine.


i rarely go out socialising with friends, if i do it's to the cinema for a 2 hour film and thats all i can really manage at the moment.


since my parents have been told about emetophobia they are making an effort to take me places, so we went for a pub lunch and a walk by the local river e.t.c. to get me used to going out and stuff... and it does help. a lot of it has to be you though, and like u said u have been forcing yourself out, which is great. stay in control.


Jen xxx

[ilsonchick]

Hey again i bet ur fed up of me now hehe!


Same here! I dont have a social life or ANY MATES at all! none! i dont have a single gurl mate so i dont get invited out! The place i fear going to the most is the cinema cause its dark and loads of people are there i always end up going cause i really wanna go get there and then feel dead sick and feel im going to be sick and i get soo panicky! If anyone lives near nottingham PLZ send me a msg cause i seriosuly wod love some gurlie mates a gurlie best mate wod be a god send!





Sarah xxx[img]smileys/smilies_06.gif[/img]

[stephiestarz]

I hate the cinema and stuff too!





But I can remember once I went to the theatre and my auntie gave me some sweets so i started eating them likea pig XD But then after a while the emet started kicking in and I started panicing and I was like "where can I be s*, where can I be s*" Then I saw this bald man in front of me and I burst out laughing thinking what his expression would be if I v* over him.. Made me laugh and stop feeling sick :P