I was thinking about this the other day cos most people start off with a horrible childhood trauma, and I think the reason being is that as adults, v* is THE most dreadful thing, so imagine all of us going through it with only a bit of life experience with probably no chance of avoiding it (kid immunity) plus I reckon bad memories are magnified in general ..I actually think of how brave I was back in primary school, two girls I got on the bus with were always on the verge of v* and one time I had to not only look after one of them but my friend had her head against the window and said "I can't look or be with anyone sick..please help me".. and that's actually one of my biggest emet achievements as I was juggling both