Poor thing.......the only one i ever tried was Lexapro...and it zombiefied me so bad and i was nauseas...granted i only lasted like 3-4 days and i quit...i was so scared i would get sick...so i stopped.....My husband has been on Paxil for some time now too...and it works well for him. I don't really have any advice b/c all i take is xanax....and it helps me tremendously....I hope someone else has some suggestions for you though.....if not i am sure your doc can offer something else...there are like a million different anti-depressants out there....hope you find an answer soon