I am so sorry about your Mom's anniversary!!! The 2nd anniversary of my Mom's death just passed, and I was a crying mess!! I know what U meam about the weight-gain from meds, althought they helped immensely, I am trying to shed the 30 pounds I gained while on them. I don't think you will et sick from your co-worker. I know it's hard, but try to relax through this hard emotional time. Do something nice for yourself[img]smileys/smilies_01.gif[/img]