Quote Originally Posted by gumdropper1


Maybe talking to him about it isn't what you need to do. The problem started because he was too open with you. If he had not said anything, you wouldn't have known, and you wouldn't be having this fit now.


Doug


Don't agree with this at all!!!! You're saying that he should've not been honest with her, and do something behind her back that may bother her? That's not right, he was honest with her, and it bothered her, so now they need to talk about it, and if she is uncomfortable with the porn, then he should respect that and "relieve" himself without it, which men do all the time. If their relationship is strong andthey can have a mutual understanding, then he did the right thing by being honest with her, and they will come to a mutual agreement that they can both respect. Trial and error.