hey sillygirl,

Im sorry to hear about your situation at the moment..

my parents divorced when I was 17 my mother now is in a new relationship but my father is wrose for ware buts due to his own fault not the divorce!

speak with your mother and get everything out in the air your feelings towards the situation and then let it go its own way..

and yes your right time to focus on the little him/her person lol..

things will work out hun these things just take time.

xVx *hugs*