Aww, thanks Japa! I just don't want anyone to feel hurt if they are not focusing on treatment. I definitely still want this board to be a support for everyone (e.g., Hubby is sick, need reassurance, etc), but I've noticed that once I've gotten further into treatment, I'm less likely to post about this issues, because I use my therapist and my therapy techniques to work through them. I just want us to be able to focus on getting better, I think that people will feel empowered once they enter therapy and start to learn for themselves that it CAN be done.