oh that is a tough one...
I know its so hard to trust someone once it is broken. I have a similiar situation with my husband.. he has a freind that is a girl and doesnt really like me.. so he didnt talk to her for a while but now seems to talk to her alot and hangs out with her sometime but he is pretty honest with me and i never get any of those "gut wrenching" nervous butterfly feeling like i did with the other bf's i was with that cheated on me ALOT.
What I have learned is you have to trust your insticts.. your gut feeling.. if something doesnt feel right dont ignore it.. i did three times in three diff relationships and it ended up i was cheated on in every one of them! It ended up hurting alot more carrying on for years and years.. dont make the mistake i did if this is how you feel...
if you dont have trust its hard to have anything at all.. you cant be worrying all the time at home while she is out.. that is not good for you. You need to come together on some common ground and understand eachothers feelings..
I dont know if i am the best person to answer your questions or give you advice since i have been in dishonest relationship after a another.. i guess what matters the most.. i broke my heart a thousand times and cried a thousands to find the man of my dreams and he is good.. i found him when i was not looking.. he would not lie or do anything to ever hurt me and inside i do believe that because it feels different.. different but good. Something i have never felt before. Its refreshing.
Hope this helps some.. if you ever need to talk.. you know where to find me!
hugs!
\"Dance like no one is watching, Love like you will never be hurt, Sing like no one is listening, Live like heaven on earth!\" Mark Twain