Hi first of all! Sorry i have been absent lately, but I have been following - just haven't been posting much - my apologies.
Ok - so those of you who live in the UK know that you get these little letters from the NHS reminding you to go for a smear test etc. Well I am 23 and have in the past been sexually active and have been told that it is really important to go to a gynocologist etc and that I shock people because I haven't gone yet. But this isn't the case - see I attempted to go and I went and I was all calm etc, but it hurt so much that the doctor had to stop and couldn't get a sample - three doctors later, I was flooded in tears and ran out of the office vowing never to return. I have never been in so much pain in my life. I lied to my mother saying I go regularly etc and I keep getting these letters. My great grand mother, grandmother and mother all had ovarian cancer, so I have been urged to go, but I am so scared now! I think my mom guessed that I was lying because she calls me to say she made me an appointment! I am SOOO scared! In switzerland, they do everything like a manual test, a smear test, god knows what else -I am not familiar with visits to the gynocologist!
Guys, I am sooo sooo scared! When my mom called me, I was at work and I had this major panic attack and couldn't breathe and my boss hesitated to call an ambulance.... I was so embarassed! Now i still am feeling so anxious and panicky and I can't breathe properly - there is NO WAY i can walk through those doors again.
What does the whole visit involve? why does it hurt so much? what should I expect?? I AM SO SCARED!!!! It hurt so much last time!!!! I have never felt such a horrible pain in my life! and I was completely calm when going - it wasnt like I was stressed or anything.
CAn anyone run me through what the whole visit involves and any experience they might have had?? I know this is really personal so please do not answer if you don't feel comfortable, but ANY advice or anything you can give me I would really appreciate it!!! I feel sooo horrible and nervous and stressed.. there is no wayi can go through it!!! I HATE IT!!! [img]smileys/smilies_11.gif[/img]