actually,while you may think you harming her now,it may do her good
in the long run. my aunts mom was a sympathy v*er and she could
never be with her while she was sick.now my aunt has kids and is very
sensitive and tough when it comes to v* but she was an emet when she
was a child...


i dunno. but your not a bad mom. but as she gets older try to explain to
her why you cant be with her.