Hi, I'm a newbie and although I have commented on a few other threads this is my first 'proper' post. Hello! I want to ask about a stomach problem I once had because altho (touch wood) it's gone. I'm still trying to get to the bottom of what the heck it was... You all seem so friendly and supportive, so here goes... oh, and FYI nothing graphic follows!
A few years ago I came down with what seemed a 'regular' stomach bug - nausea, bloating, no appetite, stomach cramps, bouts of (can I spell it?) diarrhoea, feeling a bit fluey. So far, so ordinary. The problem was that it WOULD NOT GO AWAY! Every time I would start to feel better, back it would come again. This went on for at least TWO YEARS!!!
When it started, I lost 14 pounds in 3 weeks - and I usually I find it incredibly hard to lose weight. I was living on cornflakes and ginger nuts (cookies) which was all I could stomach. Then it easedoff and I was getting attacks every week, then every month, tho not feeling truly well in between... but the worst problemwas that I would nearly always suffer from it when I went out, or went on hol with my boyfriend. The misery of feeling sick when you're away from home - urgh, right? It never actually made me v* but I feltclose several times... When I had an attack, I also felt exteremely anxious, depressed and disoriented.
The number of times my boyfriend cooked a wonderful meal that I just couldn't physically eat... I would just cry and cry. I started to lose all my confidence and didn't want to go anywhere.
As you can imagine this was NO FUN for anyone, let alone an emet! I went to the doc about 4 or 5 times but tests forcolitis or infection revealed nothing. You are thinking IBS, right? But no, I had and still have IBS and it's different. One doc asked if I was stressed, but I know my body and I know that this problem was CAUSING stress, not resulting from it! Stress made it worse, but didn't cause it. It was definitely physical. I have been an anxious person all my life and anxiety has never made me feel ill like this before, and it still doesn't. It was definitely a physical condition with occasional fever. I just couldn't get it diagnosed. I probably should have insisted on seeing a consultant, but because the problem was never acute, just mild and chronic, I would have feltI was making a fuss about 'nothing'.
A few times I had a 'normal' stomach bug on top of it, which would be there and gone in 24 hours - that I could cope with. But this underlying problem just wouldn't go. Well, gradually, gradually it faded away until I finally realised, about 3 or 4 years on, that it was gone. It left me very prone to IBS attacks but at least when these are over, they're OVER!
What I need to ask is, has anyone else experienced anything similar? What was it? It has haunted me because it was so awful and took away several years of my life. I have done a web search and the ONLY condition I could find with persistent symptoms like this was a parasite infection, eg Giardia. I don't know how I could have caught such a thing unless a) from a pet frog I had at that time or b) eight months earlier on a trip to the US (Maryland)? I just wish I had an answer because it seemed no one else in the world had ever heard of such an illness and I felt so alone!
A couple of weeks ago, a friend of mine told me she'd had v* and D that wouldn't stop and she had actually been diagnosed with giardia. Once she'd had antibiotics, she felt fine. My first thought was why couldn't they diagnose me, and the second thought was - even tho my problem was several years ago - OMG I hope she didn't catch it from me!
Any thoughts, ideas, questions, opinions would be SO welcome,,, thank you!
PS I didn't kiss the frog, honest!