Re: Board Rules? More Admins?
I think these are all great ideas. I didn't know about the 'report' button or the 'forum admins' either. I'm glad I know of them now, though. An intro would be amazing for newbies. It takes awhile to catch onto all of the abbreviations, actions, etc.
As for rules... yes, drama has been HORRIBLE lately. Once again, can't say I'm innocent. Everyone gets touchy when sensitive areas are brought up. We're also much more likely to speak our minds on a forum like this than in 'real life' because we do feel so comfortable with one another. That being said, though...
1) No drama. If drama is found, thread will be immediately closed. There is a BIG difference between drama and friendly debates. The line needs to be drawn.
2) To reduce drama, all off-topic threads MUST be posted in the 'Off Topic' section of this forum.
3) Panic posts should be posted under a section labeled 'Panic Posts'
4) Personal opinions should be kept to yourself. Whatever that entails. Not everyone is going to agree with you. You shouldn't expect them to, and you wouldn't want them to push their ideas on you... so don't think it's okay to do it to them.
5) If rules are broken, there should be a suspension process. Maybe it would make people think before they speak (well, type haha)
All in all, I think this forum has way more positive than negative, but it does seem that there is MUCH more drama lately. This should be a place we go to feel comforted, reassured, loved, and supported. Not attacked, doomed, or alone. I posted on this recently.
I can say, from personal experience, it is horrible feeling alone. Especially in a place that is supposed to make you feel at ease. For most all of us this forum is the ONLY source of comfort we have in our lives (for emet). Many of us do not have others in our day-to-day life who understand us in our 'freak-out' moments. If they don't understand, they can't comfort. I just wish we could all learn to bite our tongues and get along. With that in mind, we have to remember we are very much like one, big family. We love one another, support one another... and with this many members of a 'family,' there WILL be drama... and there WILL be disagreement.
Take my rules with a grain of salt. Just some suggestions. You guys do a great job. Thanks for all that you do!
Jennifer
"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So, love the people who treat you right, forgive the ones who don't and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it! Nobody said it'd be easy, they just promised IT WOULD BE WORTH IT!"
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