Hi Emetophobia.org. My name is Rudi and I have suffered from Emetophobia for as long as I can remember. I don't know if there was one single event that caused my irrational fear, all I remember is that it's been a burden of mine for my entire life. There have been many V related incidences in my life, mostly due to other people and not myself. These thoughts almost never leave my mind and I cannot go one single day without reluctantly and unwillingly reminiscing about them. During my mid-teenage years (14 - 17) my Emetophobia got a lot better, the anxiety and OCD side of it anyway, but the fear never left. Regardless of the fact I was a lot less anxious about public places and going out with friends, if an event were to occur that caused me to believe I was in danger of V, I would have full blown panic attacks and would be extremely anxious for days.
I recently turned 18, and for some reason my Emetophobia seems to of taken a turn for the worse. Over the past few months my anxiety has been building up, and over the past few weeks it has become extreme. At this moment in time I feel as if this phobia has taken over my life. I used to be a regular party-go-er and social person. All that has changed recently, I have stopped going out, I am going to school less and less, and in the past week it has been so bad I have barely even left my room. I am constantly washing my hands, checking my symptoms, checking food and avoiding contact with anyone (including family). It has gotten so bad my Mum, who is just about the only person in my life who knows about this, has advised me to start therapy. I am now having CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy), I have only had 3 sessions and I am sceptical that it's going to work.
I feel so depressed, scared, anxious and stressed right now in my life it's almost as if I can't cope. I am staying up all night and I have changed my lifestyle to accommodate this completely irrational phobia. I feel like everyone around me is unwell and a potential threat to me. At times, I have even caused my Mother to cry, which makes me feel like my phobia is a burden to her. It makes me feel like I've failed her, as if she expected better of me as a son. It makes me realise how different I really am. I try to mask my fear, but lately that has been impossible. This is the first time I have ever posted anything like this on the internet, so it's kind of a breakthrough for me.
I feel as if I am in serious need of help, does ANYONE know how to cope with this horrible life changing phobia? Are there any success stories out there of people who have overcome this? Is it even possible to overcome it? Please reply, I apologise for the essay. Thank you for reading.
Rudi.