Coming to college scared the heck out of me bc i was so afraid people would v* in the dorms all the time. I've always just lived with my mom, who has only gotten s* once in my lifetime.
I told my roommate about emet but I've been playing it off as a joke mostly bc that's my coping mechanism. She's gotten s* twice since I've been here now.
The first time she woke me up at like 10 in the morning and I left and went to my friends room and didn't come back for 3 days.
Last night, she did again and didn't even tell me. In the morning she laughed about it and said I was glad I didn't wake up, and then told me all the details.
I'm constantly on edge in my own living space now, I can't eat well or get to sleep. There's nothing I can do because it's not like I can ask her to stop getting s*...
next year I'll be paying for a single so I will have my own v*-free space, but I still have months before that happens. I'm afraid I'll never be able to live with anyone, even a future spouse, unless they also have emet.
does anyone have any suggestions?