Well, guys - here's the result of a year or so of my research for my book. Tell me whether this list of causes rings true for you, or what doesn't:
What emetophobia-sufferers have in common isalmost alwayssomething like this:
1) unresolved attachment issues (separation anxiety) stemming from either childhood loss (through death, divorce, abuse, neglect, or trauma) - even if it can't be remembered as significant [so in rare cases it might just be that you got lost at the mall, or were afraid to go to school, or your cat ran away]. Occasionally the only trauma is a traumatic birth.
2) hereditary factors (history of anxiety disorders, depression, alcoholism, etc. somewhere in the family orancestors going back3 generations)
3) avoidance of the feared stimulus which was allowed to continue (with emetophobia it continues simply by not vomiting for a long time)
4) A chronically or acutely anxious family system: someone in thefamily systemwho ischronically anxious about the phobic's disorder (either by worrying or fretting, by getting angry and denying the disorder in the victim,OR by excessively "coddling", trying to "fix" the phobic or just wanting to "help" - the point is that there is a family focus on the victim.) Sometimes there isso much chronic anxiety in the family that it is focussed on something or someone else (someone else has mental or physical symptoms of something).
Another indicator of family anxiety is "cutoff":someone in the family is "not speaking to" or "speaking about"someone else - somewhere in the system of people who are still alive, but occasionally the person cutoff is dead. Cutoff can occasionally be emotional rather than physical, so a relationship is maintained, but the two people do not speak of anything but shallow small-talk and avoid some major "issue" that cannot be spoken of.
5) a frightening or shameful incident connected with vomiting happening around the age of 9 or before that and not resolved by the age of 9. Occasionally this happened to someone else rather than the victim. Sometimes vomiting gets hooked in with other forms of sickness instead which have frightened the victim, even if he or she did not vomit.
I invite your comments! How many of the 5 factors are present for you? (I'm selfishly making this topic sticky for a bit - then I'll move it on down the line with the rest - lol!)Edited by: sage