Smoking, oversensitivity, and Etc.

[pinogirl3321]

There is a lot of hand holding, but without hand holding how are you suppose feel comfortable in order to beat this phobia they both go hand and hand. Sometime I see it might go overboard but that's only cause I'm not in the same state they are at the time, but I'm not going to judge on how they deal with there phobia, if it helps even alittle for them its better then nothing or making them suffer through it alone, Even if it sometimes enables that person. We aren't here to tell someone how to run there lives or there phobia cause its none of businesses, and if someone doesn't it like it don't post on there thread, doesnt mean you should have to leave the site. Ill admit sometimes it does frustrate me when people do have options at hand and don't take the opportunity that they are lucky to have to get better, but like I said its there choice and we aren't here to tell them how to run there life, we are here to comfort them when they can't do it for themselves because we have all been in that state of mind. And for the smoking thing I do smoke but for another example my father was a drug addict most of my life and I could easily say it was selfish of him to let drugs take his life and leave me behind without a father, but I don't think he was. Addiction is sometimes beyond someones control and to see someone suffer from it is just plain sad.. but they aren't selfish people they are just to weak to fight and that doesn't make them a bad person. The point is we all have weaknesses to this phobia weither its hand holding or taking anti medics or smoking, we all enable ourselves in a different way.