Yes, me too, Lizzo. I could definitely stand to be kinder. The reason I'm not a lot of the time is because I get frustrated. As my phobia is getting better, I see people suffering so much, but seemingly doing only things to make the fear worse, or I see things in other people that I saw in myself a year ago that I feel so much better without. And I do have some bad habits, I'm an overeater, and I get SO much judgement from that. Anyone with a bad habit is going to face a little bit of judgement at least. Not saying it's a good thing, just a fact of life, I guess.

Barbiegirl, I can understand that. I think that there was a discussion about that a long time ago as well, and I think you explained it really well and it made me think a whole lot. I can't pretend like I know how it feels but I can definitely understand that.