Hello! Sorry your family isn't understanding.
My parents are extremely supportive of my phobia but they arr the only ones. I'm 20 years old and married so I no longer live at home. When I was younger it was hard for me to make friends. I had to know them for awhile to survey whether or not they got sick often (weird I know). I also had to do that with boys before I could date them! You are most definitely not alone dear. We are all here for you. Feel free to add me on Facebook as well. Just search for Jennifer Parsons location Oklahoma. I would be glad to talk with you any time.