Hi everybody!
My name is Scott and I'm 21 years old. I can only recall one major case of sickness from my childhood, and that was food poisoning when I was around 10-11. It was by no means good, but at the time I had little understanding of this particular bodily function, so there was less terror in anticipation, and more confusion as to what was happening. I guess somehow this event stuck with me in my subconscious for years until one day it dawned on me that I was terrified of getting sick. A bit over a year ago I found out I had anxiety after having a panic attack in the middle of a crowded highway at rush hour. Since then I've done what I can to tackle it, and while it's not gone, I can push myself to do things even if I feel fear and avoidance to do so. About half a year ago I was told by my doctor that I have IBS, although my particular symptoms are more nausea and intestinal pains as opposed to always having to go to the bathroom. I regularly confuse my IBS symptoms with feeling like I'm going to be sick, so in the past while I've felt a resurgence of my emetophobia. I have domperidone (Motilium) that I take when I feel like I'm on the brink, but I'm trying hard to cut back and just suck up the pain.
My biggest problem right now is that I'm joining the military. And you can probably see with this is an obvious problem; "Sorry Sergeant, I'd love to keep doing running drills, but my tummy doesn't feel well. Mind if I sit down on this here rock and sip some water?". I'm joining the Air Force in particular, so that adds another interesting layer: I don't sit super well with flying. Most of you are probably familiar with what it's like to fly on a civilian jet liner, but in the military, our flights will be a lot less comforting and a lot more bumpy. It's not uncommon for guys to empty their stomachs during transfer flights and on helicopter maneuvers. What I'm trying to say is that I need to crush my emetophobia before it crushes me. I can't be a functioning soldier if I can be reduced to a shivering mess this easily.
I hope that coming here will mark the beginning of the end of this silly fear of mine. I know how serious we take it, but that doesn't change my belief that one day I will look back and laugh at this. I hope maybe even I can help someone else out with their emetophobia too. I've got much to look forward to!![]()