I am staying out of the religious talk. All I will say is I have been emetophobic my entire life. So yeah, maybe I created it... but I was 2 when my mother was vomiting every day from chemotherapy and then eventually passed away, so if I "created it" so be it. But in the same way it's just like saying to a soldier they created their PTSD. Ouch, they're not going to like to hear that.