Syrup no I'm 30 and have had this phobia since I was 6 I used to be really bad and been on the dark side of it but a lot better now, that's how I know that yes you don't lie to others but you don't go shouting the word cancer around, we all know there's people worse of than us, she just needs support and yes you was to harsh, your opinion does not always mean it's right. Your just going to keep insulting others so I'm done..