Syrup is not afraid of herself v*. She is afraid of her kids v*. From what I'm aware of, she doesn't mind v* herself, but her children v* is what stresses her out. She may not know your level of anxiety, and looking at those posts you pointed her out, that's why Syrup went at you.

As for Kelly, how could she make you feel anxious? If you just joined, you haven't made any posts yet for her to scare you.